The Waste Of Time

A blog post I wrote in 2015 has resurfaced and is being reread this week.

Think of it as a time capsule being pulled from a foundation. Will opening it reveal the change that is expected when time capsules are opened?

This blog happened to be on one topic of many, that a growing number of Christians focus their attacks on. It is an example of people being labeled, profiled, and lumped into a group, as a way to dehumanize them.

Why is this done to people by bullies? So that bullies feel justified in their primal desire to dominate others. They “enimize” Individuals to feel right about condemning them.

As you read the original post of 2015, ask yourself:

Did the bullies of the Church of 2015 use the time since then to retreat from their chosen road of aggression and hate? Or have they increased in numbers and self-righteousness on the exact same road they were on in 2015?

Since bully Christians tie their views and actions to God, claiming he endorses them and they represent him, consider what God might think of their use of time: Was it time he purposed for them to alter course? Was the past decade a time period for his ongoing mercy and long-suffering patience toward those who call themselves his? Was it a time that he refrained from unleashing wrath though it was warranted?

Consider: What happens when nothing changes despite an allotted time period of God’s mercy? Does he let us go into the fair consequences of our stubborn and committed choices?

Are we at the point of moving from his mercy to his wrath? Will consequences break through the hardened hearts and minds of those who declare themselves godly but are anything but? Will a state of his wrath facilitate change when mercy did not?

We can wait and watch together.

Time will tell.

My original blog, dated August 6, 2015, entitled,

“Knock, and the Door Will Be Opened.”

Since the USA recently legalized gay marriage, social media has been abuzz with opinions on the topic. I intended to defer to greater minds, and to those it affects directly, but the following Facebook post by an acquaintance pulled me into the fray:

There seems to be some confusion brought into the Church about whether Gay people will go to heaven. Apparently, God Himself has something to weigh in on this subject (for those with ears to hear what the Spirit says to the Church).

“Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people—none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God. Some of you were once like that. But you were cleansed; you were made holy; you were made right with God by calling on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11

I’ve overlooked the chastisements and judgments of her varied posts over the months since we met, as well as during a social event she invited me to, but this time stirred a response. I commented on her post, mentioning verses from 1 Cor. 13 about love, and God’s call for us to love, not condemn. Immediately, she sent me texts on my phone and private messages on Facebook, saying I was a voice for Satan, and an “accuser of the brethren”. I was still recoiling from those words, when she berated me at length on her post, including use of scriptures meant to silence a rebuttal.

Plenty of scriptures came to my own mind in support of love, but I knew they weren’t welcome. I typed a comment, “I have no words. I thought I was allowed a point of view. Why is promoting God’s love a reason to attack me?”, but it didn’t go through. I had already been blocked. Unfriended. Accused but denied a response. Rejected and ejected. Over and done in mere minutes.

The unjust and bizarre attack was meant to intimidate, silence and to shame me, just as the post was meant to do to gays. To be honest, I was shaken, especially by the amount of hate that was unleashed toward me. It didn’t escape notice that most of it was spewed offline where nobody could witness it. I had experienced a taste of the hatred that so many people endure from a few “Christians”.

Why does one woman’s behavior matter enough to address it in a blog post? Because this woman and her husband started and pastor a church, and additionally run an area-wide ministry to “lead leaders of the church”. How many others are being bullied, intimidated, accused and condemned?

So, in defense of the bullied, I challenge the bully …

What was the purpose of a post condemning gays to hell? Who was the intended audience for your “lesson”? It was a public setting, so I presume it was meant for any-and-all to read and take heed. I’ve wracked my brain for how it could be helpful to anyone, and have come up blank.

If people who are gay or lesbian read it, you created an illusion of a massive wall between them and God. Instead of hearing good news, such as John 3:17, “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him”, they are met with an impenetrable wall with a closed door, and this sign over it: “Condemnation Church.” Why would anyone want to enter through that door?

bouncer

Why do people who have received God’s forgiveness and grace themselves, play bouncer and dictate who is allowed to know God and who is not? Why not do as we are asked, which is love others as he loves us, and share indiscriminately the truths that have given us life?

God is not exclusionary, and the (door)way to him is not via people. People may present themselves as the hoop to jump through, but they are not Christ. Imperfect beings that we are, we often ignore what we want, conclude some issues in the Bible are obsolete or indicative of the culture of the time (such as owning slaves, or the practice of polygamy and having concubines), while insisting on the infallibility of the Bible when using scriptures that reinforce our current beliefs.

Why don’t we admit that we aren’t all-knowing? Why don’t we suspend judgment during times of change and controversy? It’s foolish not to, because our dogma and arrogance is very evident to others – we are but resounding gongs. We think we have the monopoly on all truth, and everybody else is wrong. We’re certain everyone notes our rightness, our superiorness, but all others hear is a piercing, clanging cymbal.

While we’re playing God, we are only helping the enemy’s cause, not God’s. We are the reason people are repelled from God.

We abuse God’s Word to puff up our pride, and flaunt our authoritative superiority over innocent people. We don’t even bother to ask God what his view is of others. We accuse people who don’t agree with us of not “having ears to hear” his Spirit, while it is we who won’t listen. We won’t humble ourselves and ask for God’s guidance, because if we do, we’re likely to be knocked off our pedestals — for he humbles those who exalt themselves. If we listen to him, he might tell us the very person we are condemning pleases him; he loves and approves of them; he or she loves him back and is malleable clay in his, the potter’s, caring hands.

He might unleash his wrath on us, not our victims, if we had “ears to hear”. So we don’t ask him anything, and we don’t listen. We keep busy, condemning.  We don’t even need God’s presence or direction; we already know which scriptures to use to ambush anyone who disagrees with us.

Still, somehow, the Bible transcends its misuse by humanity to represent God’s perfect nature. In the midst of those texts that mystify and divide, there are wonders to fill a lifetime. Instead of picking and choosing the scriptures to reinforce dogma, why not share the extensive wonders of God’s truths? Like this wonder:

All have free access to a loving God through a simple acceptance of Christ. Jesus wasn’t speaking of a select, exclusive group of people when he said,

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” Matthew 7:7-8

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Again, as we near 2025, those questions to consider:

Did the bullies of the Church of 2015 use the time since then to retreat from their chosen road of aggression and hate? Or have they increased in numbers and self-righteousness on the exact same road they were on in 2015?

Since they tie their views and actions to God, claiming he endorses them and they represent him, I wonder, what does God think of their use of time? Was it time he purposed for them to alter course? Was the past decade a time period for his ongoing mercy and long-suffering patience toward those who call themselves his? Was it a time that he refrained from unleashing wrath though it was warranted?

What happens when nothing changes despite an allotted time period of God’s mercy? Does he let us go into the fair consequences of our stubborn and committed choices?

Are we at the point of moving from his mercy to his wrath? Will consequences break through the hardened hearts and minds of those who declare themselves godly but are anything but? Will a state of his wrath facilitate change when mercy did not?

We can wait and watch together.

Time will tell.

Go Your Own Way

The following is a comment I wrote on Facebook on this date in 2019, when someone I know insisted Trump was doing all the right things in office. No matter what transpired, this person defaulted to Trump’s narrative to approve it. He consistently propagated the mantra instead of acknowledging reality.

November 2019 was also during the time an inquiry was launched over Trump’s quid pro quo in Ukraine.

As you read this five-year-old comment, go back in time to what was happening then. Then consider if anything in Trump, or in his followers, have changed.

Then, if you call yourself a Christian, ask yourself …

At the forks in the road of your personal decisions regarding Trump, did you choose God? …

Or did you choose Trump?

November 21, 2019.

Trump’s mantra has been that he would, and is now “draining the swamp”. To his loyalists, this covers every move he makes, every person he ejects, and every replacement he makes. He’s “just following through on his election promise to drain the swamp”.

This term, by the way, is used only by people who adopt his views. They believe him. He says he’s ridding government of corruption. They believe him because he said it. In the face of hard evidence of Trump’s longstanding past corruption, they adamantly deny he is anything but honest and upstanding. In the face of evidence of his corrupt practices happening now, in office, they say, “He’s draining the swamp”. End of discussion. They are right and everyone observing reality and sounding the alarms are wrong.

Why would they believe that Trump himself does not practice corruption? He circumvents the law. Isn’t that the definition of corruption?

His past as a businessman was riddled with legal troubles. He extorted students who enrolled in his university, which he falsely presented as accredited. He has outstanding cases from previous business dealings in which he failed to pay for services provided. He refuses to release his tax records.

Currently, he refuses to cooperate with subpoenas, and advises his underlings to do the same. The case in Ukraine is one example of how he operates apart from transparent, ethical and legal avenues. His exposure as corrupt has been confirmed under oath seven to eight times this week by people who were there.

What he has done is both unethical and illegal. His supporters morph factual exposure of his corruption into a conspiracy theory or proof of a deep state. “They’re determined to wrongfully accuse and evict him. It’s a witch hunt.” And they believe him. So they never hold him to account.

That they choose to believe him over evidence is the right of every pro-Trumper, but to do so is beyond alarming. It is the mindset of “the Holocaust never happened”; the thinking of “the Earth is flat”.

To deny facts in preference for being “right”, or unyielding in an existing view, is dangerous to others, and dangerous to the one who chooses it. It is the stuff of deluded minds. By the time one is deluded, he doesn’t realize that he is.

“Trump is God’s chosen for such a time as this”, they repeat. No amount of challenging their chosen Biblical arguments with contradicting Biblical arguments changes their stance.

As for tying Trump to God, consider who God is, and His words. God views those who lead others astray as having “blood on their hands”.

Yet supporters of Trump view him as merely “imperfect”, “like we all are”. “He’s just saying what we all are thinking.” (No, no we aren’t all thinking that way. Decent people never think that way. But now we know YOU think that way.)

We are being led to immediately reject truths and whitewash Trump’s behavior and actions, regardless the degree of ethics, morality, or law. We are being led to discredit anyone and everyone who sheds light on the truth. We are even being led to believe in conspiracy theories and the Deep State. People I know actually believe that utter nonsense, and propagate it. People I knew to be intelligent have given away their minds to lies.

Many of these same people preach that God is Truth and Satan is the father of lies. Then they choose the lies. If that doesn’t reveal that they have turned their backs to God, I don’t know what does.

Yet they insist they are in truth and God has endorsed them and their father-of-lies politics, and fellow believers who don’t agree are the “accusers of the brethren”. I’ve been called that a few times for challenging a lie promoted by someone from the radicalized-politicized-religious right. These people are not fiction, they surround us, and are calling themselves and Trump “God’s chosen”.

If anyone without Trump’s power and resources did any one of the things that he has done or said, they would be swiftly fired from their jobs at the very least; removed from even low level offices; brought to impeachment hearings as Clinton was for sexual immorality; fined for libel or slander; or imprisoned for fraud, obstruction of justice, extortion, and bribery.

Yet Trump’s converts stand by their man.

So, Christians who use the Bible and God himself to defend Trump …

Is it not in the Bible to be wise who we associate with, and who we conform to? When it’s not God we’ve conformed to, it is obvious in our language right away. For example, those who conform to a specific political party instead of Him use the verbiage of their influencer: verbiage such as “the swamp”, “deep state”, “never-Trumpers”, “witch hunt”, etc.

Most critically, whom we adhere to sets the course of our lives. It is the fork in the road — go with the road of God or not, that is each person’s prerogative — but to know God and then choose an alternative route, is to knowingly refuse Him.

That should set off massive alarm bells …

Unless it’s too late, and a person is so far down the road of choice that he is out of earshot of God’s guidance, discipline, and warnings. Those who knowingly, willingly reject Him in favor of an alternate option, shouldn’t be surprised when He ultimately allows them to go their own way.

Will He protect the person who does that? They can demand it, and believe it will happen for them, but is He required to exempt them from His justice when they have rejected Him? Must He oblige them with mercy, forgiveness, and exoneration without their contrition, change of course, and humility? Must He do that for them merely because they demand it of Him?

You have to throw out the Bible and the identity of God to land on that certainty. Maybe you already have.

The Big Picture

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Locked-In To Lies

We are inundated with lies. We all decide what we do with them.

I used to think it was the same decision for everyone:

*When you know it’s not true, you toss it out.

*When you don’t know for sure, you wait on proof – you know, the way jurors are required to do. Whatever turns out to be lies, you toss it out.

*When you believed a lie at first, and then facts came in that disproved it, you toss the lie and keep the truth.

Pretty simple, right?

We’re taught it as toddlers. It is reinforced in school. It is required for work. Churches teach it is a trait of God himself — God is Truth. And lies? Well that’s easy, they preach: Lies are from Satan, the father of lies.

Most simply put:

Truth is right. Lies are wrong. Don’t lie.

But now I know we don’t all make the same choices about lies.

Some actually choose them. And add to them. Then add some more.

Church people, who sat in the same pews and heard that to love God is to obey God, promptly disobey him and one of his commandments in favor of lies.

They don’t love him.

They too read Proverbs 9:10, about reverently fearing the Lord: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding”, then instead of pursuing wisdom and understanding, they grabbed their treasured lies. “Don’t take this away, it’s my everything, it’s my priority, it’s my treasure, it’s my god.”

They don’t fear him.

When someone confronts deceivers, they trash the person who is questioning them. Then add some more lies, now about the person who knows they are lying. Because …

Anyone who knows the truth about a liar is the enemy of that liar.

When facts and evidence start to roll in, deceivers refuse to alter course. Instead, they double down. They dig in. They lock-in.

They search out people to confirm them, agree and double down with them, and attack whoever dares still shine a light on their now elevated lies.

No matter the mounding evidence that their lies are … just that … frickin’ lies, they remain committed to them.

“Final answer?” the game show host queries. “Final answer”, they declare.

“Lock-in your answer” the game show host directs. And they lock-in another lie.

Those people. Those people who are committed to lies. They are in our homes, and at family and friend gatherings. They are our neighbors, classmates, and coworkers. They are our pastors and our store clerks. They are our nurses and policemen. They are our lawyers and PTA members. No title or degree, no lifestyle or alliances reveal who the lovers of lies are.

Observation tells us who the lovers of lies are.

Once you know, you know.

And then what?

If you care enough about truth, if you value facts, if you live your own life to tweeze out and discard each and every lie, and keep only facts …

Then you change your relationship with liars.

Each one is uniquely involved in your life, so each one is handled differently.

It’s critical that you do it well. If you don’t, every little compromise of the right way to handle it opens a crack to allow their lies to infiltrate your own mind.

So how do you do it well?

With wisdom.

If you haven’t been valuing wisdom, you’re late to navigating life well. Wisdom takes time, experience, and an open mind to always learning. It starts with a little bit of wisdom in your own personal storehouse labeled “wisdom”, and grows to bigger and bigger piles of it.

If you keep at it. It’s lifelong work.

Wisdom doesn’t come easily, it comes in the tough stuff of life. It requires staying strong enough to learn when all you want to do is wilt into a pity party. You don’t get to pamper yourself when the class of wisdom is in session. You don’t get to play victim to rally others to pamper you, when the window of wisdom is open.

If you’ve been doing the high road stuff, the strong stuff, the hard stuff, and foregoing taking it easy so that you can gain wisdom, because you value wisdom that much …

You’re on the right track to dealing with lies and liars.

If you haven’t been doing that, it’s yet another choice in this life of choices.

Do you want to become wise, to handle life as effectively as possible? Then choose to do it, and plan on it being work. It’s not acquired by osmosis. It’s not a passive infusion that crosses your brain barrier from those who have worked hard for it to lazy, self-indulgent you. It’s damn hard work. It’s yours and only yours to do.

If you don’t choose it, then you are choosing the opposite of wise. That’s called fool.

The choice is yours.

God Knows

I wonder … Is there truly concern that people in America are not going to know God?

That is again the reasoning many Christians give for backing Donald Trump. With the election just fifteen days away, Trump’s supporters from religion endorse him as the candidate who not only represents the ideals of Christ, but who was chosen by God to lead America.

It is claimed that without him and the GOP, we will eventually become a godless nation. With him and the GOP, we will “return” to God.

There are innumerable examples of Trump’s behaviors and words to refute that God would choose a human like him to lead our nation, but let’s keep it simple: let’s look only at the alleged need for our nation to be “saved” for God by Trump and his supporters.

Does the amalgam of conservative, Bible-based churches and conservative, Republican-party activism truly care that people today and in the future are not going to know God?

Or, if people are honest, is the real concern that the world has changed, and the social order of the mid-20th-century is lost? Was the white-male-dominant past better, when punitive measures and theologies could achieve subjugation of less powerful people to their wills?

Could that be why a branch of Christianity is doubling down on legalism, proselytizing, and a theology of a punitive God? – to get their power back? And for those who acquired power during his term, could it be that they got a taste of it, loved it, and don’t want to relinquish it?

I suppose power is an attractive thing in the eyes of those people, but is it a good thing in the eyes of God? They know their Bibles when they pull scriptures to justify themselves and condemn others; they know what God says about that kind of power. Do they care about that? Do they care about Him?

Religious affiliation does not equate to pleasing God. From the same Bible that people select scriptures to justify self-righteous theologies, is this, from Jesus:

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!”

Speaking of the Bible, when did the scripture, “God so love the world …” get changed to “God so loved the USA … “? When did we elevate patriotism to equal stature as God? Isn’t that the definition of idolatry?

Could it be that “outsiders” look at religious Christians who claim to represent God, and their condemning, rejecting, hypocritical, and oppressive attitudes are what caused their flight from the Church?

For those who might have shown interest, did they arrive to open doors, or did they arrive to literal and metaphorical bouncers, judging them as unfit to enter?

If they were allowed to enter, were they immediately taken on as a project by those inside, to transform them to the culture of that church? Did people take over God’s role to do the transforming; to “cleanse and make each person whole”? Is God allowed to free them from captivity, or do religious zealots actually compete with God, and push him aside in order to keep people ensnared?

Are the people who flee those kinds of churches able to separate God from the people who claim to represent him?

If not, who is to blame for their resultant aversion to anything of God? – Let’s be honest. It’s far too often the people inside.

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You Choose Where To Put Down Your Roots

You may have noticed that when in the presence of certain people, you thrive. Something about their nature allows you to flourish. They draw out your best qualities and nurture your growth.

They promote your potential.

It helps immeasurably to get to know God one-on-one, so that you recognize those people who are extensions of Him, and who will offer an atmosphere of righteous support and wise direction for your steady growth and betterment.

The more you know God, the easier it will be to recognize those people who are not reinforcing what He is growing within you.

They are not drawing out your best qualities and nurturing their growth. Instead, they cause your best self to retreat. Those people stymie your gifts, your personality, and your well-intended aspirations and values.

They quench your potential.

Difficult people will always be in your midst, but you can control where you put down your roots. You can interact with most people without having to embed yourself in the same ground in which they are rooted. 

Mingle, converse, disregard, listen, learn, laugh and enjoy when you cross paths … but only plant yourself in ground where righteousness is nurtured.

There may be seasons in your life when nobody provides fertile ground for your growth. Still, you are not without opportunity to bloom — put down your roots in the love of God, and in the careful guidance of His Holy Spirit. 

With Him, you are guaranteed luxuriant development of all that is good within you.


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